RIP Mrs.Delbeke

Well tonight I read an e-mail that i have been dreading. My best friends mother has passed away from canacer last night at 12:30 am. Jay is stuch a strong and beautiful person he sent such a beautiful e-mail which must have been hard to send. Jay's mother passed without pain surrounded by family and to top it all off the celebrated her life till 6:30 in the morning. That is the most beautiful thing I have ever heard, and I'm sure that his mother would be very happy. Jay you and your family are amazingly beautiful and I love you.
For those who don't know Jay, he was my best friend through college at CDIS. Jay, Ali and I where inseperable for a time being and kept eachother sane through all the allnighters. After College we reunighted again after we both had kids and I met his partner who I absolutley love and think very highly of. Jay is very much like Bryan in the artsy fartsy kinda way that drive both Lara and I Crazy,lol.

Bryan and i have discussed our funerals many times and have both decided that neither of us want one. We want a party being held and i even know exactly what music Bryan wants played. Ahhhh scary thought, but I would rather know what his specific wants where to be prepared.